FRESH GRADUATE: BACK HOME BUT LOST HAPPINESS: Click here now, to see what you are not seeing.


Hey pal?
Smilez!
The dreams you had before the day you made up your mind to become a student in higher institution seems inexplicable right now as a fresh graduate, RIGHT?
You can't even explain to yourself what you have gained or acquired in school in order to help yourself in the future and to be the owner of that private jet and mansion that people wished all along to be the rightful owners.
Now, you are among the wishers; but since the situation is this way, you feel that what you dreamed of was an illusion and there is no way you could make it.

C'mon, You forgot you have acquired some certificates to prove to anyone in the world that you passed through lot of examinations and has succeeded this day?
It is an achievement, a great one for that matter, because it is not all that went with you got this certificate, most were withdrawn and lot more happened.
The worse look you can have now is this:

Everyone, even your parents are currently pointing fingers at you: "here is the graduate, we thought by now will be bringing the millions of dollars we had hopes for".

I just want to let you know that, even the man you saw in his private jet today had this same look but in no distant time, things changed. Your ability to change things is the main reason I am here today, to touch you inwardly and impact that great intuition you have lost currently, and make it work for you.

Now; the secret is:
IMAGINATION RULES THE WORLD.
If am not mistaking, your university/college days is one you will live to remember; and whether you’ll remember this stage of your life in satisfaction or in regret depends on what you make of it. This is a very important stage of a young life of which the experience you create is totally your responsibility. As graduates out of school, looking back through school days as a student in Higher Institution, we sometimes wish we’ve known better than we did at that time. If you learn to look at things from the bright side, you‘ll understand there’s no room for regrets because everything we did and didn’t do while in school should all turn to be profitable experiences; it’s just a matter of how you look at it. If you are a fresh graduate or student currently in a higher institution; University, Polytechnic or College of Education, I want to share with you a lovely moment of "think outside the box" that will help you prepare for your career after school. It is not too late as a fresh graduate:

The country isn’t so fresh graduate-friendly, and just hoping for a better life after school is not enough. They say, it gets easier after school but from what we see around us, you’ll wonder how true that statement is. There are said to be currently over 19.7% unemployed graduates in Nigeria (I personally doubt the near-correctness of this figure); some taking to odd jobs just to find their daily bread, hoping for a miracle, others trying so hard to find a better life with little results. I was once in the shoes of trying to figure out what would work for me, and looking back (excluding issues with the country not making necessary provisions for fresh Nigerian graduates) things would have been a lot easier if we had laid a better foundation for ourselves during school days. History doesn’t have to repeat itself. You can always learn from those before you.

"Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is to not stop questioning."
Albert Einstein
That is my great mentor, who saw what I am seeing now, beforehand. He's said it all, but that is not a point to put you into quandary and regrets.

You are here for solution to this problem.


First thing that I have to tell you is that: your family home is a comfort zone for the now; no matter how hot it gets for you, except you have more than enough to pay for accommodation elsewhere and relax, because you really need it. A stressed body can not function properly especially in puzzlement requiring logical analysis.

This anxiety always come because of our false belief that turns to reality at the end, and the shock to see this brings distress.

No wonder she said:

"I have nothing against education. But a times, education gives people false confidence. It makes people relax, trusting in their certificates rather than in working hard."

Rasaq Okoya


But now that you have seen the reality and have realized your mistakes of several opportunities denied to make money if any, other than find a solution to the already encountered issue.

Congratulations and you all are welcome home: it is not easy to spend all those years studying.


 

 WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW THAT I AM RELAXED?
You have made the stage one of this guide, if you are relaxed now.
What I have for you currently is to think of your capabilities; what you can do with your hands, and not where you expected government to place them for you.
Forget about them, and act as if there exists no government. This is a matter of you and your life, not excluding your guardians. This is the reason why most of the students are advised to select a particular course of study. simply because it must have been pragmatical in nature and lucrative.

Consider a computer engineer; fresh graduate for example, he/she has no problem on how to see little pea nut to sustain the little moment of this problem. With a good business idea, no time to waste in setting up a good small business and make money from that office, since lot of persons in this nation make use of computer system, and this devices develop problems regularly.

As long as this little cash is coming in to take care of yourself and maybe little to help others, then your happiness is surely back to you.
If you do this, then you are unknowingly waiting for the better job or better solutions you are unable to see right now.


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