GET MOTIVATED: IS ANGER GOOD FOR US AND IN OUR BUSINESSES OR NOT?
HOW DID YOU SEE ANGER?
Friendly or destructive?
I know you are currently puzzling the answer to the above question.
Don't think too hard, okay? I have some explanation and an analogy below, to express to you tremendously, on how to answer above question with good reasons.
Get motivated and carry on with a good life out there, backed-up with a good attitude; which is the secret key to successful life.
Friendly or destructive?
I know you are currently puzzling the answer to the above question.
Don't think too hard, okay? I have some explanation and an analogy below, to express to you tremendously, on how to answer above question with good reasons.
Get motivated and carry on with a good life out there, backed-up with a good attitude; which is the secret key to successful life.
What is anger?
Anger is an emotion seen as an opposition toward someone or something you feel has deliberately done you wrong in one way or the other. Anger can be a good thing. It can give you a way to express negative feelings to others, for example, or motivate you to find solutions to problems faster. But excessive anger can cause more problems.
Do you agree with me?
Still want more of my words, to backup what is said above?
I will only tell you this particular story my dad told me years back, it will go a long way to help me explain this to a perfect state I want you to be right now.
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the wall he showed him. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the wall. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the wall as usual. Finally the day came when the boy
didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was
finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the wall. He said; 'You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the wall. The wall will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. Once you hurt your loved ones, it won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound will still be there. A
verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Remember that friends are very rare jewels indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed as a business partner or colleague; They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care, and you are loved back as well. They matters a lot in the daily activities that concerns you; in this, you will always hear from a friend who has done what you are currently trying to succeed in, that which you are doing that makes you fail to get a desired result, simply because he has done it in the time past and for the fact that you are a friend indeed, this becomes an open-secret to you.
So, what is your answer to the first question you encountered above?
Am I right or wrong?didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was
finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the wall. He said; 'You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the wall. The wall will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. Once you hurt your loved ones, it won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound will still be there. A
verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Remember that friends are very rare jewels indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed as a business partner or colleague; They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care, and you are loved back as well. They matters a lot in the daily activities that concerns you; in this, you will always hear from a friend who has done what you are currently trying to succeed in, that which you are doing that makes you fail to get a desired result, simply because he has done it in the time past and for the fact that you are a friend indeed, this becomes an open-secret to you.
So, what is your answer to the first question you encountered above?
Thanks for being here, today!
*winks*
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