Read More, on How to Handle Failure.

Read More, on How to Handle Failure.

  15:00:00    ..::| Sir Kelz |::..

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HANDLING FAILURE:

How are you doing today?

Hope the activities of today isn’t so stressful and has not unexpectedly failed to yield a desired result? But if it has and as such, pressed deep into your conscious mind an unexplainable feelings which has unknowingly lingered into the subconscious mind to take part in moderating your actions and speeches made to anyone that come across your way?

It is normal, I must confess. If this doesn’t happen to you, then you are abnormal, and doesn’t need to continue with the reading of this content or write-up. Please, kindly use the door, I hope you know what I mean.

Failure is a great enemy to mankind. Everyone can testify of this logically, emotionally, psychologically, physiologically but the good news is that it works for the betterment of our life.

Haven’t you considered those situations that you thought wasn’t solvable, but after few months passed by, you became amazed to look back at the past, and found that the problem no longer exist? That it only took time and little effort you kept applying, bit by bit to the little problems coming up every day from the biggest problem you thought was unsolvable, and today it is no more?

This is common, and the logic behind the said above paragraph should be the answer to what we are going to be discussing about failure today.

I mustn’t speak like the number one successful man on earth, god of success or the king of failure resistor. Experience they say is the best teacher, but some persons said no to this, because they’d love to learn from others failure, and correct their yet to be made mistakes, instead of failing to learn from failure. This statement portrays one with greatest fear of failing, and the fear of failure is the beginning of failing. I am not saying that this is wrong, but they are having so much illusion, which kills through imaginations.

What am I saying?

Allow failure to go his way while you go your way. Stop imagining in tension, if he just appears to your way, when you are almost to your destination, because when there is fear and tension in imagination, once this imagination turns real, the tension turns hypertension. With this hypertension, there is lower tendency that you would continue in this journey after recovery. This is where my definition of what failure means originates from.

I defined failure to be the inability in continuity or the discontinuation of goals’ achievement. It is not about the error in result gotten but it is in the quitting after the error in the error gotten.

This is the major reason I would not hesitate to mention Thomas Edison in this context. The man that founded electric bulb. Behind his success was trips of error in result gotten, and not failures. I guess this guy supported me much in this write-up when he said that, he has not failed but discovered 9,999 times of ways of making electric bulb not to function. That is to say that, he sees error in its entirety as totally different from failure, as failure is described as discontinuation.

It is in the light of this that I relay my secret to handling failures, in case it comes up to anyone. Follow the below statements, it explains in its simplest sentence, more about failure and its handling mechanism.

Be prepared for it, because life itself is under probability.

Study more to show yourself approved anywhere in any field you are found.

Go for professional advice to obtain information needed beforehand.

Smile and stand again, for even the cripples struggles to stand.

Lack of information causes deformity.

Never let yourself down, in any situation at all.

Ultimate: Consider God, He is able to change all things to good.

Thanks for being in this section with me today.

More are coming, because I'll not drop my pen until I am old enough to hand over this base to the young.

That's not failure!!!